When I checked out an email from Kassandra, a mom in rural Missouri who does parent coaching via Skype, I challenged her to explain to me what a parenting coach might provide that we don’t get already from our good friends or other trusted sources. I believed she did a darn great task of answering, so I wished to share it here.
The short response is that the services I offer are akin to those of a guide for a pilgrimage, a midwife, as well as your best-listening good friend all rolled into one.
You understand your children’s worst habits that drives you crazy; arguments with your spouse around parenting, family, sex, as well as balance; stony silence with your parents or in-laws about your kids? Why do these things drive you crazy? exactly how do you react when your spouse is a jerk, your kids won’t cooperate, as well as there are three million things on your “To Do” list? They are all catalysts for your own inner journey. We just requirement to listen to their coded messages.
At parentcoaching.org, I listen to you without judgment. I assist you get honest about where you are now, get focused on what you want, as well as teach you to utilize practical tools to produce your own reality. Let’s take a better look at what all that means.
זה הכל עלייך
A great good friend can offer a great deal that is extremely free to parent coaching, as well as yet there is nothing like having all the focused time as well as interest on you without any requirement to reciprocate. most of the time, our mom good friends are extremely hectic with their own lives as well as want to talk in addition to listen. It can be difficult to get the time as well as focus each of you requirement in order to go deeply sufficient inside to discover your own answers.
Parent coaching offers you deep listening. I will listen to you up until you are done. Both you as well as I show up on our phone call with the strong intention to support you in resolving your dispute or challenge. Paying me provides you permission to go deep as well as to focus on yourself as well as the problem that’s truly bothering you without wasting time.
The majority of our time together will be focused one-on-one time where we talk about you. I’ll listen as well as get to understand you then we’ll dive in to the concern or concern that brought you to me. I’ll utilize concerns to show the focus back to you to assist you laser in on your own answers. Your issues are as well complex as well as difficult for me to solve. only you have the skills as well as info to do that. I have the skills to assist you get to your own answers.
Accountability
Parent coaching likewise offers accountability. mom good friends commonly offer us reassurance that they still like us no matter what. No matter exactly how much you talk about wanting to make modifications however withstand really altering anything, your mom good friends are still there for you. Their unconditional acceptance is part of why they are so valuable.
I offer one more type of value. I don’t requirement you to like me. I am right here to assist you modification your life. I am right here as coach, cheerleader, confidante, sounding board, discreet witness, aural journal, fierce caring presence, as well as guide for your own hero’s journey. I want to work with you to go deep into understanding yourself as well as assist you emerge stronger, clearer, as well as healthier. I will walk with you as far as you want to go into the terminate of transformation as well as I will assist you discover your method back out again, altered as well as reborn to integrate those modifications into your life. That’s a tall order for a mom good friend to fill.
Invest in the Process
I’ll assist you clear up your own dreams as well as goals; discover new tools for healing your connection to yourself, your children, as well as others; get daily methods into location to assist you accomplish as well as integrate; as well as feel positive with the process. On average, this takes about three months satisfying when a week as well as is priced at $600. In this way, I’m like a midwife, supporting you in birthing a new element of yourself without taking the birth away from you. when you understand you have the stamina as well as tools to handle the difficulties as well as you understand you can do it on your own, our work together comes to a close. I’m always right here in the future when you want to tune up your dreams as well as goals, discover new tools for transformation, or take it to the next level that seems just out of reach. I’m an ”˜on call’ teammate, coach, cheerleader, as well as inspiration.
Your discontent with your children, your relationships, or your life is the catalyst for the journey. Your wishes to be the most whole as well as innovative human you can be, to enjoy your children, as well as to assist them be risk-free as well as happy are the guiding principles that draw you forwארד. אני הקול שלידך עוזר לך להקשיב כמו גם לפענח את החוכמה השלווה של ההנחיות הפנימיות שלך.
קסנדרה בראון מאמן הורים מריקודים ארנבים Ecovillage במיזורי הכפרית. היא קובעת כי כל אדם שהיא מאמן מסייע לה להשתפר להגיע לחלום שלה לחיות בעולם בר -קיימא והאנושי.
מה אתם חושבים? האם שכירת מאמן הורים משהו שאתה מקשר אליו או שאתה מרגיש שיש לך את כל המשאבים שאתה צריך? האם אי פעם התמודדת עם מאמן חיים מכל סוג של סוג?